Love Transcends Planes

Your definition of cheating describes the plain on which your relationships exist. It could be on mental plain, physical plain even on spiritual plain and cheating is possible on all three plains.

So What is cheating in simple terms? A violation of a contract.

So if the relationship exists purely in the physical domain then you will be greatly offended if you find your partner sleeping around with somebody else because that was everything that was to their relationship."The Body" And mind you that relationships do exist in abundance.

Then there is mental relationship where there is an exchange of emotions. I am emotionally related to you. Right? You do good things as I do, not necessarily in the physical way. In this kind of relationship, agreement is all about you keep doing things that please me mentally and I will keep reciprocating the things that pleases you mentally. We will be each other’s ego friends. If ego hurts we get cheated. Where there is cheating there is anger and violence. This kind of mutual mental pleasure giving would not be a part of purely physical relationship.

Then their is a relationship on the spiritual plain Here primary relationship is with somebody else not basically with each other. You are committed to something. He too is committed to something and two of you are together because this togetherness take you both to that something. Now they two e together not for the sake of each other but for the sake of that something. Here cheating is all about whether you or I deceive about me of that something Now I won’t stay with you for a second if I find you not loyal to that something. Here we are not pleasing each other,all we are pushing each other. All that self-deception which one calls love falls into pieces when you have instances like cheating even if relationship is for decades or even more.

Now what is right definition of love?

We are both pushing each other towards that something and that something is true. some call it liberation etc. On our own, we probably won't reach there independently. Because even though I do have a desire to reach there yet I have my tendencies, my inertia, my lazy ness, my ready excuses are there. But when you are with me there you call me out. You expose my lies and that’s your place in my life, contribution in my life. You don’t let me remain my usual tardi self and that’s exactly how I reciprocate. Now this is love on the spiritual plain purely to make best out of each other.. by not getting attached towards each other. Your body is not my concern. It is not the body to reach that something my concern is something else.

Created by Prajwal Phulauriya