`An MTECH GUY`

Human love is indeed a complex thing. At times, it sees worth, at times it looks for a good person, and at other times, it waits for the right one. It advises not to judge, and at times encourages to have fun. But when love breaks, the wound it leaves behind inflicts pain akin to that of suicide, at least for a while. Afterward, no matter how many people you meet, you are no longer afraid that they might hurt you.

Many girls came into my life, but I saw their deceitfulness early on and kept my distance. I thought I was safe at the gym, but another disaster struck there and gave me a shock of my life. I almost took a wrong turn in life but was stopped just in time. I reaped a little of the karma I had sown, which turned out to be a heavy burden in the first semester of my Mtech CSE. The person in question treated me horribly and ended up with one of a person who nobody liked during our Mtech. She tried to defame me on the confession page.

But I observed something in my life, it was Narayan's grace that I made many good, positive connections shortly after college, that was a miracle and they helped me in such a situation. You can't change a person in life, nor can you ask them to stay with you. It felt like everyone was fighting against those three ants on my behalf. I did so much for the person in front of me, and she stabbed me in the chest. That pain lasted a year.

Now, I want to work on myself and don't want any nagging in my life. Moreover, let me tell you one more thing, I was taught everything in tantra that this is what life will be like. I spent my life watching a brief emotional moment, and that moment drained me empty. Now, I do have desires, but not for another person. I want to move forward alone now.

Life, they say, is a journey. In the face of heartbreak, it may seem like an uphill climb, the terrain rough and harsh. But take heart in knowing that every storm passes, every wound heals, and every challenge presents an opportunity for growth.

After going through such an ordeal, you're now embracing self-improvement, focusing on your individual growth. That's a commendable decision. Remember, self-improvement isn't just about work or career progression. It also involves personal development, including emotional maturity, which appears to be the area you're working on right now.

Use this time to reflect on the lessons learned from past relationships and how they've impacted you. Recognize the part you played and think about what you can do differently in the future. Perhaps there is a pattern to the people you choose, or how you react to certain situations.

And while it's important to work on yourself, don't shut out the possibility of new connections entirely. Life is full of surprises, and you never know when someone might come along who shares your values and understands your journey.

The focus on self-improvement also comes with the realization that you are enough on your own. This is an empowering belief that will serve you well, not only in relationships but in every facet of life.

Remember, you don't need to rush anything. Life is not a race. Continue to grow and learn at your own pace. Invest in yourself, in your well-being, your skills, and your dreams. With time, you will find that your life is richer and more fulfilling than you could have imagined.

Keep going. The road might be rocky now, but there's a beautiful vista waiting just around the bend. And you have the strength to reach it. You are not alone in this journey. You have your own company and the support of those who truly care about you.

Take each day as it comes, be patient with yourself, and remember to enjoy the journey as much as the destination.

Created by Prajwal Phulauriya